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    Child Harm, a Silent Tragedy: Every Parent who Cares Should Read This

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    Child Harm, the Silent Tragedy: Every Parent who Cares Should Read This. A young child engrossed in a laptop device

    “I know that many would choose not to hear what I say in the article, but your children need you to hear this message. Even if you disagree with my perspective, please, just follow the recommendations at the end of the article. Once you see the positive changes in your child’s life, you will understand why I say what I say!” ~V.P.

    Victoria Prooday is an outspoken advocate of children and hands-on parenting. I share her post with her permission because we want your children (and you) to thrive. (See her original post here.)

    There is a silent tragedy developing right now, in our homes, with our children. Through my work with hundreds of children and families as an occupational therapist, I have witnessed this tragedy unfolding right in front of my eyes.

    Damage to the Child

    Talk to teachers and professionals who have been working in the field for the last 15 years. You will hear concerns on kids’ mental health similar to mine. Moreover, in the past 15 years, researchers have been releasing alarming statistics on a sharp and steady increase in kids’ mental illness, which is now reaching epidemic proportions:

    • 1 in 5 children has mental health problems

    • 43% increase in ADHD

    • 37% increase in teen depression

    • 200% increase in suicide rate in kids 10-14 years old (24% in other age groups)

    How Much More Evidence Do We Need Before We Wake Up?

    No, “increased diagnostics alone” is not the answer!

    No, “they all are just born like this” is not the answer!

    No, “it is all the school system’s fault” is not the answer!

    Yes, as painful as it can be to admit, in many (not all) cases, WE, parents, are the answer to many of our kids’ struggles!

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    It is scientifically proven that the brain has the capacity to rewire itself through the environment.  Unfortunately, with the digitally driven environment and parenting styles we’re providing to our children, we are rewiring their brains in the wrong direction and contributing to their challenges in everyday life.

    Yes, there are and always have been children who are born with disabilities and despite their parents’ best efforts to provide them with a well-balanced environment and parenting, their children continue to struggle. These are NOT the children I am talking about here.

    I am talking about many others whose challenges are greatly shaped by the environmental factors that parents, with their greatest intentions, provide to their children. As I have seen in my practice, the moment parents change their perspective on parenting, many of these children change.

    The Emotionally Unhealthy Child

    Today’s children are being deprived of the fundamentals of a healthy childhood, such as:

    • Emotionally available parents

    • Clearly defined limits and guidance

    • Responsibilities

    • Balanced nutrition and adequate sleep

    • Movement and outdoors

    • Creative play, social interaction, opportunities for unstructured times and boredom

    Instead, children are being raised by:

    • Digitally distracted parents

    • Indulgent parents who let kids “rule the world”

    • Sense of entitlement rather than responsibility

    • Inadequate sleep and unbalanced nutrition

    • Sedentary indoor lifestyle

    • Endless media stimulation, technological babysitters, instant gratification, and absence of dull moments

    Could anyone imagine that it is possible to raise a healthy generation in such an unhealthy environment? Of course not! There are no shortcuts to parenting, and we can’t trick human nature. As we see, the outcomes are devastating. Our children pay for the loss of well-balanced childhood with their emotional well-being.

    How to Fix It?

    If we want our children to grow into happy and healthy individuals, we have to wake up and go back to the basics. It is still possible! I know this because hundreds of my clients see positive changes in their kids’ emotional state within weeks (and in some cases, even days) of implementing these recommendations:

    Set limits and remember that you are your child’s PARENT at this time, not a friend.

    Offer kids well-balanced lifestyle filled with what a child NEEDS, not just what they WANT. Don’t be afraid to say “No!” to your child if what they want is not what they need.

    • Provide nutritious food and limits snacks. Avoid toxic foods.

    • Spend one hour a day in green space: biking, hiking, fishing, watching birds/insects.

    • Have a daily technology-free family dinner.

    • Play one board game a day. (List of family games) Allow for unstructured play.

    • Involve your child in one or more chores a day (folding laundry, tidying up toys, hanging clothes, unpacking groceries, setting the table etc).

    • Implement consistent sleep routine to ensure that your child gets lots of sleep in a technology-free bedroom.

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    Teach responsibility and independence. Don’t over-protect them from small failures. It trains them the skills needed to overcome greater life’s challenges.

    • Don’t pack your child’s backpack, don’t carry her backpack, don’t bring to school his forgotten lunch box/agenda, and don’t peel a banana for a 5-year-old child. Teach your child the skills rather than do it for them.

    Teach delayed gratification and provide opportunities for “boredom” as boredom is the time when creativity awakens:

    • Don’t feel responsible for being your child’s entertainment crew.

    • Do not use technology as a cure boredom for your child.

    • Avoid using technology during meals, in cars, restaurants, malls. Use these moments as opportunities to train their brains to function under “boredom”.

    • Help them create a “boredom first aid kit” with activity ideas for “I am bored” times.

    Be emotionally available to connect with kids and teach them self-regulation and social skills:

    • Turn off your phones until kids are in bed to avoid digital distraction.

    • Become your child’s emotional coach. Teach them to recognize and deal with frustration and anger.

    • Teach greeting, taking turns, sharing, empathy, table manners, conversation skills,

    • Connect emotionally – Smile, hug, kiss, tickle, read, dance, jump, or crawl with your child.

    Before It’s Too Late

    We must make changes in our kids’ lives before this entire generation (and future generations) of children will be medicated! It is not too late yet, but soon it will be…

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    Child Harm, the Silent Tragedy: Every Parent who Cares Should Read This. Author Victoria ProodayFor anyone who questions this phenomenon, the Star News/ Canada article may be helpful: Demand for youth mental health services is exploding. How universities and business are scrambling to react. Victoria’s original article. Victoria holds a Master of Science in Occupational Therapy from the Medical School at University of Toronto and a Bachelor of Science in Kinesiology and Health Science from York University. She is founder and director of a multidisciplinary clinic in Toronto, Canada, for children with behavioral, social, emotional and academic challenges. Victoria, along with her team, has helped hundreds of families across Canada and around the world and is a frequent guest speaker to teachers, parents and professionals

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    “Only be on your guard and diligently watch yourselves, so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen, and so that they do not slip from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and grandchildren.” ~Deut. 4:9

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