In 2015 in Michigan, a mother was arrested for killing two of her children and hiding them in the freezer. It turns out that the two children had been dead for two years. Immediately, questions were raised as to how two children could be missing that long, without anyone noticing. No relatives, no neighbors, no school officials, no social workers…no one knew they were gone.
[This difficult post is shared with express permission of friend Israel Wayne. Originally posted on Homeschool Freedom.]
When the mother was arrested, she insisted that she was homeschooling. In Michigan, there are no reporting, standardized testing, or requirements for home educated students. This led to a Democratic state representative drafting a bill that would have required annual reporting to local school districts and mandatory bi-annual visits for homeschoolers with CPS workers, police, doctors, psychologists, etc.
In MN in 2015, a seven-year-old boy died from what prosecutors charged was medical neglect. The family was reportedly homeschooling their son. In 2016, a sixteen-year-old girl, who has reported to be a homeschooler in West Des Moines, Iowa died. The parents were charged with starving their adopted daughter to death.
On January 15, 2018, a news story out of California reported allegations of horrible abuse of thirteen children who were apparently starved and handcuffed by their parents. With this situation being so fresh, it’s clear that there are many still many questions unanswered. One thing is clear. This situation puts the spotlight back on allegations of abuse in the homeschool community.
Some critics question what they consider to be too lax regulations regarding homeschooling in various states. They said that it was homeschooling, and lack of access to the home by government officials, that allowed for these abuses and deaths.
Would Greater Government Regulations on Homeschooling Protect Children?
Is it true that greater academic oversight of ALL homeschoolers would protect children from physical and/or sexual abuse or death?
There has been no credible evidence that the mother in the Michigan story was intentionally homeschooling her children in any way. She was not a member of any known homeschool associations, did not attend any homeschooling events, and did not produce any credible homeschooling curriculum.
But that mother’s claim aside, would her children have been safe if homeschooling was more regulated? Would standardized testing, or annual reporting, have kept her children from being killed?
It should be self-evident that people who disobey laws (like laws that prohibit them from abusing their children), will simply ignore and avoid additional laws that purport to prevent future crime. Additional regulations and restrictions on homeschooling really just create needless bureaucracy and cumbersome intrusions for the multitudes of loving, law-abiding parents who are now suspiciously categorized by the government as potential future criminals.
Homeschooling is Not a Risk Factor for Abuse
In 2016, the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services (Administration for Children & Families) released a report on known factors related to abuse and child neglect.
According to this government report, there are a few demographic groups who are known to be at a higher risk for abuse than the rest of the populace.
Home educators were not included in this list. There is no known predisposition for abuse among those who choose to home educate their children.
To suggest that parents who are investing their own time and resources to teach their own children at home is a “red flag” for potential abuse, is to suggest that what we need in our culture is less parental involvement in education, when all research available to us resoundingly reinforces the fact that we need far more.
According to research, it has been demonstrated that the states that have the most legal restrictions on homeschooling, do not perform any better on academic achievement tests. So more regulations do not even produce better academics for homeschoolers. National Home Education Research Institute
How Do We Stop Abuse?
As bad as we would all like to, we simply cannot completely prevent abuse before it starts. At least not through governmental solutions.
The one thing the government can and should do, is enforce the perfectly adequate child abuse laws that exist in every state in the U.S. As with most of our societal ills, we don’t need additional laws. We need the consistent application of the laws that are already in place.
If a child is being abused by a parent, those parents need to be fully prosecuted under the existing laws in that state. But we dare not seek to punish all families because of the potential future actions of a few.
Very often it is argued, by opponents of home education, that children are safer in public schools than they are with their own parents. But is there any evidence that would support this? The fact is, thousands of children, who attend public schools, are abused by their parents every year. This abuse often goes undetected, year-after-year, by trained school officials and staff.
Public Schools Not Abuse-Free Zones – Rather, High Abuse Zones
Many advocates would suggest placing that child into a public school system as the solution to protect them from potential abuse from their parents. But now the child simply faces a new predator danger: Teachers who prey sexually on their students.
The U.S. Department of Education has published a report on “Educator Sexual Misconduct.” It reveals that over 10% of students experienced some kind of sexual misconduct in their high school years in public school.
NBC News reported that One In 10 Students Reports Sex Abuse:
“More than 4.5 million children are forced to endure sexual misconduct by school employees, from inappropriate comments to physical abuse, according to an exhaustive review of research that reads like a parent’s worst nightmare.”
The online site, WorldNetDaily.com, has compiled an alarmingly large list of teachers who have been prosecuted for being sexual predators to students in their classrooms.
Homeschoolers are Less Likely to Be Sexually Abused
The Gen 2 Survey, one of the largest studies on the Millennial generation, with almost 10,000 participants revealed that students who are homeschooled are actually 257% less likely to be sexually abused than students who are in public schools.
With estimates of approximately 2.3 million students being safely and successfully home educated in America, there is good reason to argue that it is the government-run school system, not home-based, parent-directed learning centers, that pose the greatest physical risk for students.
Physical violence is also a great risk on a public school campus. “During the 2013–14 school year, 65 percent of public schools recorded that one or more violent incidents had taken place, amounting to an estimated 757,000 incidents. This figure translates to a rate of approximately 15 crimes per 1,000 students enrolled in 2013–14.”
So the notion that children would be far safer in a public school classroom than they are with their parents and siblings, is simply not supported by the available data.
The Blame Game
When a child enrolled in the public school system is abused by his or her parents, no one says, “We need to have stricter teacher certification laws,” or “We need better annual standardized tests,” or even, “All public schooled students need to have mandatory home visits by CPS!” No, people do not think to blame the educational system for abusive parents.
Neither do they seek to violate the basic, fundamental rights of all innocent parents because they are suspected of potential future crimes against their children.
So why the double standard? Why shouldn’t homeschoolers receive the same basic courtesy afforded to those in a public school setting? If parents abuse their children, then by all means, prosecute those parents to the fullest extent of the existing child abuse laws in your state.
We all want to see children protected and violence stopped. But we should make sure that we use methods that actually work, instead of creating needless government red-tape for parents who love their children and want to teach them at home.
[Post shared with express permission of friend Israel Wayne. Originally posted on Homeschool Freedom.] Israel Wayne is author of the book, “Answers for Homeschooling: Top 25 Questions Critics Ask” (2018). You will also appreciate Israel’s website, Family Renewal.
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Denise
A wonderful, thoughtful article! Thank you for posting it!
One thing I would add- the young lady from West Des Moines, IA who died while purportedly being homeschooled, was originally enrolled in public school.
Before she was withdrawn from public school, signs of abuse were noted during that time by her teachers and schoolmates. Many of them testified to her asking for food or for money to buy food as well as it being obvious she was un-bathed and was wearing the same clothing over and over. At least one of her family’s neighbors also reported signs of abuse.
Too often in the reports regarding this situation, the emphasis is wrongly placed on her being ‘homeschooled’ at the time of her death and rarely is it mentioned she was in public school when the signs of abuse were readily apparent.
Jacqueline
Thank you for informing us of this, Denise! I didn’t know and might just add a line tomorrow with a link if I can find a good one. Blessings!
Marc
Hello Jacqueline
“The hand that rocks the cradle, rules the world.” That’s perfectly true, but you should understand this quote correctly. Anyone who has the power to manipulate people rules the world. Whoever has power over the financial system rules the world. Those who have power over the mass media dominate the world. Those who have power over faith (Vatican) rule the world. Anyone who has power over the health system (pharmaceutical companies) controls the world. Do you see where you stand? You let yourself be mastered, you are part of this enslavement, you have sold your soul to these powers. Think about it intensively. Your website makes you untrustworthy, because your interest is only for profit. You even advertise for Amazon. That is very crazy. All these facts prove that your interest in man is fake, you are a fake. Incidentally, who does not provide contact information from his website is to be considered with great preference.
Jacqueline
What does what you say have to do with regulating homeschool families, Mark?
Much of what you say is not logical and how does that quote or your summation of it prove where I stand? My interest is not “only for profit”; I have not mentioned this on the blog before, but the profit does not go to me or anyone in my family. It ALL goes (after taxes and costs to run this blog) to help families through our church benevolence and is therefore not a financial benefit to me whatsoever. Actually, I write this resource FREE, it is a big drain on my time and energy, but it is also a great joy to me to be able to help young women, wives and mothers. I pray that I am an encouragement to them, and so I do not take comments like this seriously. I would hope to have better things to do with my time than to attempt to discourage others.
My interest in man was fake before the Lord rocked my world and broke my heart! He (Jesus Christ) woke me up to His supremacy and my utter weakness. I thank God that He got a hold of my heart, and now I live with hope and joy and purpose. Guided by His sacrifice for me (and you -John 3:16), I am a new creation. I will pray that the Lord will rock your world, too, soon, so that you may see His unsurpassing greatness and find the love and joy he has for you.
I am glad for your comment and hope that you can receive it and do away with such a cynical view of others. Also, this comment section IS a form of contact.
PS You can read my testimony of selfishness, assisting in abortion and having an abortion, and later my conversion here: https://deeprootsathome.com/now-i-value-life/
Marney
Jaqueline,
I appeciate your very gracious answer to Marc. Thank you for your considerable time and effort that you put into your blog. I have learned so much from you! I also pass along some posts to my daughter, which she uses as she raises our grandaughter. Your research and writing is priceless. Again, thank you!
Jacqueline
OOh, Marney! I had to go back and re-read what I wrote to Mark and I remember being a bit upset at the moment 😀 Anyway, thank you for that encouragement. I needed it right now as some days are intense spiritual battle over this blog and other things in life. So thankful to meet sisters like you and know one day we will all meet in the presence of the Lord!
May God bless all your loved ones with abundant grace and blessings in Him! J
Elise
To think of the abuse that these kids suffer is horrific. You have brought some interesting points to light that are definitely worth discussing.
Darlene
What homeschool information do you have for 15 yr old boys! I am his aunt and he is having a lot of issues with a low immune system. He stays sick a lot! He wants to be homeschooled until he can get better!! Thank you for any help you can give me!! God Bless
Jacqueline
Hi, Darlene! Bless you for advocating for him!!
It depends on your state, and I am certain there is are state organizations in all 50, and some have large state-wide organizations. You can call and get direct help from the regional coordinator in place, most likely.
Okay! This site has so much on beginning homeschooling and state organizations in place to help: http://www.beginninghomeschooling.com/ There you will find ‘getting started’ helps and ‘state organizations’.
Also, this is an excellent resource: The HSLDA helps many, many thousands get direction every year. https://www.hslda.org/earlyyears/StartHere.asp
Since your nephew is 15, look for the beige box to the right of the page and you’ll see a “Starting with a High School Student?” link.
Your nephew is blessed to have you, and it is evident you have a lot of love!! I am praying for you and for him!
PS One thing you can do for him that will help his immune system is give a good cod liver oil (Dropi is the best, IMHO). It was the one thing mothers used to
do and it strengthened the children immensely!
Blessings, Jacqueline
Karen
I wonder what percentage of students in public school are abused by parents or teachers, or bullied by other students, compared to the percentage of home schooled students who are bullied or abused? While any abuse (and especially abuse that leads to death) is tragic, it seems like actually a very small percentage of the home-schooled population is abused. Most are in loving homes with parents who are carefully educating them.
People who are determined to break the law or do evil will continue to do so regardless of additional laws being passed. If we could get rid of evil by making more laws, there would be no murder, as murder is already illegal, as well as everyone would pay their taxes, no one would steal, etc. More laws will only burden the families that are already following the law, while not doing anything to stop the families who are not following the law.
And by the way, Jacqueline, thank you again for the time you put into your posts and running this site. I have found it to be helpful. encouraging, and educational. Please keep posting! I have referred many friends to your site, or shared with them information I have learned from you.