If you are here for the first time, you can get caught up with the ‘Portrait Of Feminine Dressing’ series. Here are Pt. 1 , Pt. 2, & Pt. 3.
Wearing something feminine to the store may not the norm anymore, but I’ve had more doors held open for me and am given more respect than if I was wearing jeans and a tee. (PS, I do wear jeans, too).
When I dress more femininely, I feel more like a lady. I want to have the identifying marks of a modern lady!
Subconsciously I am choosing what kind of person I want to be, and this transfers to our daughters (and friends). I’m not inviting unwanted attention from men when I am out running errands, but I do want to reflect well to others. Still a genuine, warm smile is our best attire.
Feminine looks for running errands in any season
Do you love the cooler weather after a long, hot summer? I do. Give me that sunny, mild, crisp, and shortened day with a hint of autumn in the air, and I am happy. I love to throw on a light fleece jacket or a cardigan sweater to go to Trader Joe’s or wherever my ‘to-do’ list takes me.
Comfort is important, too. If it’s not comfortable, I don’t keep it in my closet.
We are all different. Women have different styles and unique ways to be feminine when they head out of the home, and it’s what brings variety and interest to living. This young lady on the bike (R.) is on an errand in Paris, France, and looks typically French. Who knows – she may be heading to the boulangerie for almond croissants!
Errands: Shopping, the Outdoor Market or the Dentist
An appointment to go to the doctor or dentist or bank is (to me) deserving of a little more care than if I am working in the yard or working out at home.
We, you and I, may be the only example of what a Christian is to someone. Our attitude and willingness to be kind and considerate of other’s needs speaks loudly.
And besides that inner attitude, often, I think some of us Christians and homeschoolers didn’t give a very positive impression by how we dressed and carried ourselves in past years.
Anyone else agree?
Let’s consider how we carry ourselves, dress, speak, act out of genuine concern and love for others.
Here are some more ideas for getting out on errands:
Maxi skirts are an easy way to dress during pregnancy! Here’s one cute idea:
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With cooler fall weather in mind, here are 4 feminine dress styles to utilize your long skirts.
I found them on Clothed Much. It took me a few minutes to notice that the skirts are used twice.
Feminine dressing is usually understated, yet pretty, like this. However, I’d maybe go with more comfortable shoes – or maybe not!
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Here are three different looks to get you where you need to go, some more casual than others. Scarves, sweaters, a denim top, a jeans jacket, or layered leggings are all valuable accessories and work depending on your mission. They can be an inexpensive way to change the whole look of an outfit.
Homeschool mom Laura gives us a look at what she calls her ‘back to school’ shirtdress:
Whether running errands, fixing the family’s lunch, or singing to the radio in the car, be creative and enjoy being the lady you were created to be!
Who can find a virtuous wife?
For her worth is far above rubies.
14 She is like the merchant ships,
She brings her food from afar.
16 She considers a field and buys it;
From her profits she plants a vineyard.
18 She perceives that her merchandise is good,
And her lamp does not go out by night.
20 She extends her hand to the poor,
Yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of snow for her household,
For all her household is clothed with scarlet.
22 She makes tapestry for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies sashes for the merchants.
27 She watches over the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.
~Portions of Proverbs 31
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Tracie
Thank you so much for this inspiring series! You have motivated me to switch over my wardrobe, and I am, little by little. I think what always prevented me in the past from doing so was that I just couldn’t picure it-so I love all of the photos you include!:)
Charlotte Moore
Good post!!! GOD BLESS!!!
Jacqueline
Good to hear from you, Charlotte! You are a faithful friend to encourage me so 🙂
Miriam
Thank you so much for all these wonderful pictures of feminine clothing! I have loved every single one. These are such a valuable asset in a world that is so gender-neutral. Blessings!
Chris Seiler
I absolutely love this series!!!! Fabulous job! Gave me some great ideas! The link to Part 3 doesn’t work for me, and I’d love to see it. How can I find it?
Jacqueline
Dear Chris,
I think I have your link fixed now~ we did some permalink work and it wiped out many links and all the likes and shares 🙁 God bless you!
Leah
Thank you for sharing! As I am growing more mature I realize how important modesty is and am becoming more conservative in the way that I dress…not that my family wouldn’t say that I wasn’t before, but I feel it is more important now raising a son. I enjoyed the pictures of the examples to help me with ideas as I work on my wardrobe.
Julia
Thank you as well for the pictures. I have never liked pants and wouldn’t wear them even if I chose to – they are just so uncomfortable. Now lately I have been thinking some of my skirts are way too long and have joked that they are longer than my 1830s skirt. Which they are. But here you show many that are below the ankle. (Only someone who does period demonstrations would care or notice skirt lengths from the floor to above the ankle and care where it was in that range.) No one here wears skirts hardly at all so I have nothing to go on as to what is good today but now I won’t worry about how weird my below the ankle skirts look.
Laura S.
Thanks for featuring me again, Jackie. It is a fun series and I think all women enjoy getting fashion inspiration from each other! I especially like the polka-dotted skirt near the top, with the cute red shoes that look like they could be worn everyday. (I am always drawn to impractical shoes, like heels, but I rarely end up wearing them except maybe on Sunday!)
You inspired me to pull out my plaid shirtdress and try it on… I thought there was no way I could fit into it this fall, but somehow, wonderfully, it fits! I have no idea how this is, as I’m not even close to my pre-Lavinia size, but my extra weight must be in all the “right” places for this dress… 😉 Hallelujah!
Jacqueline
Oh, dear Laura,
You are indeed a blessing to me! You are a beautiful example of grace and gentleness. Thank YOU for encouraging ME each time we are together or talk virtually. May the days with Edmond and Lavinia be sweet ones, dear! Remember, they are all to short when you look back 😉
Love in Jesus,
Jacqueline
Deanna
Our family owns a women’s accessories and handbag store and are working on a web store that should open in a few weeks.
We love dressing femininely and using accessories to change the look – scarves are awesome and so it a pretty handbag!
Thanks for these great posts…they are encouraging!
Melissa
I love all the ideas for feminine dressing. I have also enjoyed the different hairstyles in the pictures you picked. I have grown my hair out long, I think it’s so girly and pretty to have long hair, but as a homeschooling mom of four, I rarely do anything with it ( unless you count pulling it into a lazy ponytail). I would love to read a post of lovely feminine hair ideas?
Jacqueline
Melissa,
That sounds like lots of fun! There are some very pretty pictures, but would it make some of us discontent with what we have?…I’ve wondered. Blessings!
Susan
Thank you so much for this series. As a 48 year old woman in these confusing times, I have completely lost my way in how to dress. The majority of women in my small town wear jeans, 3/4 length pants or tracksuit pants. It is very rare to see a woman in a dress or skirt, unless they are office wear – not feminine. I have just had a hysterectomy and feel very unfeminine and this series has provided a way for me to regain my sense of my feminine self.
We are in Spring here and I brought out a lovely feminine skirt and wore it on Friday – for the first time in about ten years I wore a skirt in public. I felt wonderful. Thank you so much! 🙂
Kellie
Wonderful post! My Mom was browsing through your lovely blog, and discovered this series, which is so inspiring. I’m loving all of the beautiful fashion ideas you’ve collected.
And right there in the last photo we found someone familiar… Yes, the girl in the woolen shawl is myself. Thanks so much for featuring me! The whole outfit is found here:
http://kelliefalconer.blogspot.com/2012/01/outfit-my-heart-is-sair-giveaway.html
Blessings,
–Kellie
Jacqueline
Kellie, I’ll be right over!! I am so glad you found it and commented back!
Denise
I really like this blog site. You have done a wonderful job in portraying how to be feminine. Thank you, Denise
Jacqueline
Thank you so much for your kind words, Denise! Inspired by my daughter.
It was wonderful that she loved being feminine, but also sturdy and capable. She is now married and still enjoys being a woman and all that the Lord has given us to do.
Blessings! J
Candise Learn
Love this series! Very inspiring!
Jacqueline
I’m glad you are enjoying it, Candise!!
Blessings, ~J
Denise
Hi Jacquelyn! A very nice series on feminine dress and modest style… except for the one picture in this article of crotch-emphasizing jeans. It directs the eye right where it should not be. Not so nice. Really does not fit the theme of virtuous womanhood.
Jacqueline
Thank you, Denise, I really appreciate the heads up! I think my tastes have changed to align with yours exp. since we have awakened to what is going on to undermine our families and destabilize our children.
Pray I can find the bandwidth to change it out one day after December is over.
Blessings,
Jacque
Jacqueline
Denise, Thanks for the input! I will definitely check it out. time is an issue on this end!
Blessings,
Jacque