Jo Frost, SuperNanny, asks the question, “How many of you parents actually read a bedtime story to your children?” The response is really quite shocking!
In Britain, she found:
- 33% don’t read to their children
- 33% (over a third) of children don’t even own a book!
Reading Test
SuperNanny goes all out with an experiment to prove the benefit of parents reading to their children.
Dr. Jessica Horst devised the experiment and 2 groups of families are the guinea pigs.
So let’s see which children will learn/benefit the most?
- The group that have parents reading to them or
- the group that listens to a tape, has the same book and reads along?
See this segment from 28:30 to 32:00 where SuperNanny does this experiment:
(oops! I can only find this one other place: here – 28:30 to 32:00)
Jo Frost believes that most parents don’t spend enough time with their children and has been teaching the most effective ways to bridge the gap between parent and child. Simple changes such as reading to and closely engaging with them a few minutes a day can bring huge benefits. If you want to give your children the best start in life, she says that a shiny new laptop and brilliant tutors aren’t the way.
Your time is the way!
Charlotte Mason was another educator from the UK who proposed reading to children at the turn of the twentieth century.
Not unlike SuperNanny, Charlotte Mason believed we should use ‘Living Books’ to teach children thoughts and ideas that breathed life, not the dry facts in textbooks. Living books are more story-like and their authors are passionate about their topic.
In 1987, Susan Schaeffer Macaulay wrote For the Children’s Sake that discussed Charlotte’s philosophy, and so Charlotte Mason’s ideas were brought into the homeschooling world. Mason’s ideas are still popular among homeschoolers today. The Ambleside Online website offers curriculum and resources for this approach.
This approach is a good choice if you are interested in creating a learning environment that is not schedule-focused, more spontaneous, and presents a balance between the delight-drive of the student and guidance by the teacher. If you as a teacher feel comfortable evaluating your child’s learning not based on formal tests, then this approach will also work for you.
Because this method emphasizes the education of the whole child, and not just the mind, it could be considered holistic by some. This approach has higher parental involvement in their child’s education, not simply giving facts and information. Parents are encouraged to teach and train in faith, character habits and citizenship in addition to traditional academics.
Get Started with Living Books
If you want to do what SuperNanny suggests with your children, instead of reading just any old book, I propose Charlotte Mason’s ‘living books’. When we decided to home-educate our children, an almost irresistible urge seized me to find these ‘living books’ for use as our school readers.
The books we choose for our children should be exciting and stimulating to them. They should inform their worldview and instruct their hearts as well as their minds.
I would hunt in second-hand bookstores, public school book sales, the Goodwill, at garage sales, and at the home-school convention. I was passionate about it! I would ask the Lord to guide me and help me in finding books that had noble themes and wholesome content. He did bless the effort! I started this before the children were reading. We have collected some wonderful books at very little cost for a comparable library.
We bought living books specifically for each child. We used a stamp, and their name was written into each book. These books have become the basis of their own collection for their families some day.
Characteristics in Living Books:
- content in which the author communicates a love of the subject and stirs the imagination and enthusiasm of the topic in the reader
- widens vocabulary; takes the reader to far away times and places
- content that is wholesome and uplifting, exciting and stimulating
- it can be old, but should not have ever been wet and is not musty ~it must smell good, like a great old book should
If you start when your children are young and you love to read, it will most likely become a fondness of theirs. ~Jacqueline
SuperNanny’s suggestion and Charlotte Mason’s method just may rescue a bored or unmotivated student. Ask the Lord to show you how to proceed.
My Living Books Lists:
- 100 + Whole-Hearted Books To Fight Back The Culture
- Parents, Kids, 33 Great Books & The Bond Of Reading
- 25 Beloved Time-Tested Read-Alouds For Young Children
- 75 Classic Books We Shouldn’t Ignore In A Child’s Repertoire
- 60 Titles For The Well-Rounded Children’s Bookshelf
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“Money can’t buy what your kids want. They want all the toys in the world, but what they want MOST of all is YOUR TIME! And that costs you absolutely nothing.” ~Jo Frost
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